The kind of mother I want to be

A gracious one! Certainly easier said than done……..

I’d like to be a Mom who is always supportive of my daughters, one who will never say I told you so, why didn’t you listen to me, who’s fault is that? Yeah, I’m not going to be a Mom who dwells on the negativities in life and will only have my daughters’ most sincere best at heart. I want to be the Mom whom my daughters’ feel they can always come to with any problem, ANY problem and that I am their best friend.

I will also be the mom who teaches them the harsh reality that it isn’t good enough to be good but that they’d have to be fucking amazing if they wanted to stand out and win. And that there is no such thing as a stupid or naughty person. Everything and anything is possible, everything is within reach. It is only their desire of how much they want something and the accompanying hard work that will bring things to them.

I am the Mom who would work extra hard to find a way to make my girls learn whatever it is that needs learning and not take the easy way out. Nobody said parenting was easy! But with God’s help (and certainly because they are His children), I will strive to be the best mother that I could ever be. Ok, T1….you just remind Mommy about this post whenever Mommy’s blood starts bubbling, ok?

I want to be the Mom that my daughters’ will feel at home with. Nothing to hide, and if they’re ever down in the dumps, I’d be the first they’d call. I’d soothe their wounds, be their pillar of support till they get back onto their feet again. I want them to love my company, absolutely love it……so they’d take me on all their holidays and always come home lots.

I would never put them down even with the mistakes they make and surely they’ll be making lots on their way in this journey of life. And I’d always be there to pick them up. I won’t interfere with their choices, only telling them how I feel and the pros and cons of each decision. Ultimately, the choice is theirs as it is their life. Yet, whilst they may make their own bed, if they screw up, they’re always welcome into our bed.

I love my girls to eternity. I really, really do.

I am so blessed to be given this opportunity to bring them up.

This will be my daily mantra.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!

Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.

She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
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