Lessons my Mom taught me – Part 23

Always use your heart

Always look out for THE HEART

Whilst I understood what this meant at the time in my 30s, I actually did not know the DEPTH of the meaning, until more recently when I became fully immersed in teaching about money.

In my employment years, I used to get so excited every time my salary doubled at corporate but Mom never, EVER flinched.

It was SO HARD to gain recognition and celebration from this tall woman.

So I strived harder until I doubled my corporate salary 5 times (FIVE TIMES!!) but still nothing.

When I excitedly told her how so and so achieved this and that, Mom would ask, “Where is his heart?”

Erm… 2 completely separate things, Mom!!

Mom retorted, “I don’t care how much money you make. I want to see the heart.”

Hmm…

Let me share a truth many of us learn too late.

I chased trophies my whole life just to get recognised yet when I became a multi-millionaire, I felt completely empty. I had grown half my wealth in masculine energy.

All I had were jealous haters, people who spread lies about me, and friends who bailed because I had grown faster than them.

There is absolutely NOTHING WRONG with achievements, money, titles, fame, recognition, etc. but when they become your goal instead of the by-product, it begins to own you.

Although I was the woman who seemed to have it all (many have told me how they wished they had my life); freedom, influence, a thriving business, retired husband at home, everything material, etc.

Despite it all,something was missing. Nobody understood me.

I started creating art with hearts and dove within, to make sense of why people weren’t happy for me.

It seemed like everyone had forgotten that they actually HAVE a heart.

Just because I was accomplished, everyone assumed I was at the level that did not need any help, any care.

People were threatened, not in the same frequency, and simply did not like me.

I am human, am I not?

By chance, I was led down the path of self discovery and was diagnosed with High Functioning AuDHD.

Suddenly, EVERYTHING MADE SENSE!!!

We were at completely different frequecies so I could not expect them to understand. What I projected to everyone out of genuine love, triggered everyone (except when they were at the same wavelength – very few).

I worked with coaches and spiritual leaders to process my new found gift and finally stopped leading with my head, as Mom had advised and stressed always.

I started listening to MY SOUL.

I started giving love before the strategy.

I allowed myself to be seen, flaws, warts, failures and all.

Not only did my joy return, but the FLOW of abundance was greater than ever before.

So grateful

This is how my Mom became a Millionaire as a Stock Broker! She was so ahead of her time and only now, the world is catching up, slowly ….. but faster in other places.

Money does not define us.

But it mirrors the love we have for others and ourselves.

When you love YOURSELF and others fully WITHOUT AGENDA..… with clean energy, EVEN when a dickhead irritates the shit out of you, CAN YOU HOLD YOUR VIBRATION?

I can.

And this is why I make money easily.

My husband is learning. He blesses every a$$hole on the road to have an incredible life but he has not fully embodied it yet.

The universe rewards alignment SO MUCH MORE than high performance.

And the most aligned thing you can ever do… is to lead with your heart.

Mom was teaching this to me all my life for 40 years but I only got it in my late 40s.

It is having the faith to put your entire savings to invest in yourself to learn the skills so you have a heart that literally turns shit into gold.

Selfless LOVE with boundaries.

KERPOW

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