These pictures below were taken when T1 had first started school this year and I was the ever anxious Mom who had to be at school to check exactly how they conducted their swimming classes and to make sure my 5 year old could actually handle getting changed and dry herself properly, and not enter her air-conditioned classroom dripping wet. After a few weeks, I told myself I couldn’t be at school every week just to dry her hair so we decided to cut it.
I bit my tongue and went through the steps with her on what she had to do whenever she got out of the pool. Seriously, we’re dealing with a 5 year old here.
Don’t let any of your stuff touch the wet floor.
Squeeze your swimsuit dry and put it immediately into the plastic bag.
Rinse yourself quickly (there is no time for a proper shower) and squeeze your hair dry.
Wipe your hair. Wipe your body super dry.
Put your clothes back on. Towel dry your hair again.
Pack your stuff neatly. All wet stuff into plastic bags provided.
Do not let your swimming slippers touch your stuff. It belongs to the slipper bag.
Comb your hair neatly. Listen to your teacher.
Swimming is T1’s favourite class of all at school. She LOVES swimming.
Walking to the pool.
Swimming……
So this week, the Hubs and I went to school to check her out since the coach told me she has made progress.
I had a heart attack when I saw how she handled herself after swimming. AARRGGHHH!!!! I feel as though I have to go again every week !!!
When she removed her swimsuit, it dropped to the floor. And she left it there. Her towel, dropped SEVERAL TIMES on the wet floor. She barely rinsed herself, it was rather a walk in-walk out out of the shower. Her hair was still tied then. She simply placed her cap and goggles all over the place as she moved and chatted with her friends, which means she could have easily lost them. You know how kids are. And by the time she was done, her hair was still dripping wet and making her T-Shirt wet as well. And her legs were still wet too. HOW!!!!??????
There is just no way she is ready for this. Maybe in another year. Hopefully within the next year.
And as much as the Hubs says to just let her get on with it, she’ll learn eventually, I cannot let go. It makes me so stressed out thinking and knowing that she is walking back to an air-conditioned classroom with wet hair and wet parts on her body. What shall I do???????
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your SOP too many words la, cannot. number of words tally with her age, jiao ok. so, SOP changed to “your hair must be wet” (can’t even squeeze the word “super”). the rest of SOP, can close an eye not? if not, then go to school lor, watudo, takkan ask the hubs to go, right?
how many styles she’s swimming now?
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Haha…you echo my thoughts and anxiety as a mother. I am also concerned when it is my kids’first attempt in any activity and usually have my lists of DOs and Don’ts for them.
Afterall, they are still young and need our guidance.
*sigh* i would do the same thing too if mine were to take swimming classes by herself. I would be stressed out not knowing how she gonna take care of herself…etc. Maybe wait another year lah.
Let her be. Easier said than done I guess because it’s very different if I’m used to handling boys? I can’t imagine my kids doing ANY of these even when they are older. Just today, B2 accidentally touched a dustbin at the mall and then proceeded to rub his nose.
My kids are big buffalos already… And they are still guilty of everything on your list!
Mine still like that.. after swimming, just lantak on the hotel bathroom.. guess who pick up the pieces..
i was going to say let her be too coz nothing bad has come out of this (so far). i mean, all these months you were not aware and she’s alright. you can remind her day in and day out the stuff she needs to do. on the brighter side, she’s progressing in swimming and she loves it! 😉
of course we mother udrstd how u feel…same with boys. that’s why i don’t allowed mine to attend swimming class in their kindy those days coz i can’t trust the instructor with so many kids!! i promise to company them to private swimming lesson but till today….no sign of progress yet…boo hoo
i like syn’s comment, since she’s OK…can u just shut yr eyes, hahaha 😛