Follow Tee’s SLEEP JOURNEY since the day she was born. You MUST open the links to see the pictures of her sleeping adventures!
So.
Tonight. 1st December 2009. I decided that enough was enough.
I was going to do whatever it took to make Tee sleep on her own. WITHOUT me. I made a deal with her that she had to give herself a chance to fall asleep without a crutch (ME) for 10 days. Just 10 days. For goodness sake, she’s FIVE YEARS OLD!!!
She goes to Big School next year!!! How awful that she still needs her Mommy to hug her to bed! C’mon, gimme a break!!!
We started at 730pm. I sent her to our bedroom whilst I stayed outside with T2. The loudest bawling began. Frequent trips out with every excuse under the sun. More bawling. Swollen eyes. Several hundred threats. Lots of corridor walking. More bawling. Choking. Vomiting. Indian tamil drama. Lots of tears. More excuses – hunger, washroom, thirst. Golf ball eyes. Big, huge, uncontrollable sobs.
She finally passed out 2 hours later. Only because we were out all day playing. Her personal record of loud bawling is 3 hours so we had it good this evening.
I’m sure there will be less crying tomorrow when she realises that…………
I. will. not. budge.
Good luck, Tee. Mommy loves you more than anything in the world.
And just in case you think I’m the meanest Mom on this planet, I was real nice, reassuring her every 10 minutes when she’d walk out that I loved her and she was strong and I knew she could do this blablababla. And no, she did not vomit. She just pretended to.
Note to self: Must photograph Tee’s bulging eyes tomorrow. *evil laugh*
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Short term pains for long term gains!
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I must learn from you….just last nite, I was the one sulking when she refused to sleep and Hubby suggested we take her for a drive…and after 20 mins she fell asleep on the car ride home… sigh…
coincidentally, we also started on 1 Dec. Light off, she’s on the bed, early (at 10pm – usual was ard 11-11.30pm) and hubs surf on attached study room. The usual lah.. eyes itchy, bum itchy, tummy ache, want water, want shee shee, want to pangsai, stomach ache.. bla bla bla.. fell asleep at 11pm. I have 1 month to get her to sleep early before school starts in Jan. Major stress..
I m sure Tee will succeed….
LOL!!!! I understand your pain MamaPumpkin!! Although my willpower is shocking… I’m a sucker for golf ball eyes. Do take photos!! hha…
oh man…i gotta start training ashley too. thanks for posting this. i need the advice…hehehehe