Whilst we are feeling melancholic about the subject, I might as well blurb out my own schpiel about it.
I think I am a GREAT friend.
I am loving, honest, sincere. I make no demands of friends. I am accepting and I don’t impart my own ideas onto anyone. I am sensitive to others believing that everyone is different. I never get jealous of my friends but instead look out for their best interests at all times. I am also not malicious. In fact, I strive to make my friends smile or laugh everyday!
My friends are those who are there when I need them. I don’t have to see them or talk to them everyday but when I need them, they are there. They care about me. Genuinely. And vice versa.
Of course, there are friends to complete your day-to-day life like friends you go shopping with, friends you have tea with, friends you gossip with, friends you gym with and etcetera. I call them ‘purpose’ friends as they are friends with a purpose. These friends may or may not eventually enter your inner circle, the ‘inner-circle’ friends whom you call when you are in jail.
Friends need to enjoy each other’s company. Friends should have no ill feelings towards each other but instead the best of intentions for each other and genuine happiness should the other be lucky enough to get ahead in any way. Friends are forgiving. And I thought friends were forever……
I was wrong.
Friends are not necessarily forever. People change. Just as the wind. And your best friend today may not be your best friend tomorrow. It may not be the fault of anyone. You just grow in different directions. Accept it. And cherish the time that you were allowed to be friends.
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!
Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.
She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
You sound like a good friend to have. and you’re right: people change and it’s no one’s fault. Better to just move on than to try and force friendship. Life’s too short for that nonsense.
Hi EmilyJane – Thanks for the validation. I needed that. 🙂