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I’ve been super busy still. Juggling Tee and my own work deadlines, housework, cooking and laundry…..it really is no picnic. I visited a newborn baby today and felt real clucky after. Tomorrow I am having guests. Saturday, my cousin arrives for a whole week and stays with me. Then we have two house viewings in the afternoon and dinner after, and then a drive to KLIA.
It seems that the calendar is on a perpetual all time full and there are just not enough hours in a day to complete all tasks.
So in the midst of all this busyness, I baked some chocolate brownies today – cut out a whole load of sugar and they were perfect. I needed something therapeutic to do to calm the internal chaos and Tee was pleading for it. We wrapped them as little gifts with ribbons so Tee could feed her school friends tomorrow. And because I do this, I am labelled as the Goddess of Domesticity……
Women talk behind my back about how ‘perfect’ I am. They use the word ‘perfect’ in many forms but ultimately to suggest that I do so much for Tee, sometimes too much. But who’s to say? Do I have to apologise for my ‘perfection’? I am certainly not perfect. Far from it. It just so happens that I love doing certain things and just because they don’t do it, why knock me? I don’t judge them?! Furthermore, I can’t help it if Tee is ahead of everyone in class. It’s not like I spend my time drilling her at home with academics. Puhleeze, I’m busy enough as it is. She just happens to be a bright kid. It’s genetic. Live with it. I’m not jealous of my friends with super-smart kids, super fat wallets, super hot bodies, super gorgeous faces or super happy happiness?! So please just leave me alone…….
And then there is the issue of what I know and who I know. Sometimes, it is just easier when you have a wallflower as a child, don’t know anything and don’t know anyone. Because women love to talk. As it is, Tee is, dare I say, the most popular girl in class and many of her friends want to come to her house to play with her. I would love entertaining everyone but I have chores to do and work to complete. And on that one day if I had one friend over, then some feel a slide. Why does it have to be that way? Why can’t we just have more positive women in the world?
I need to stay away from negativity. I do. I do!
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!
Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.
She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
Women are just like that. You can’t win. Just go about your business and don’t even think about these haters.
action betul, u. hahaha
yup…just ignore these EFNTD women. Just continue doing what you love to do 😀
You need more brownies in your system…here, have some of mine! LOL!
Ah…these people are just plain jealous. Kiasu nature mah. Don’t care lar.
Tee is adorable and she’s smart and brilliant..and I’m so jealous too! But in a good way lar. 🙂
Don’t get yourself overstressed because of some ‘see lai’ who has nothing better to do at home.
So true! Why cant these women be happy?!
I can see why these “see lai” talk behind your back. They must be so jealous. From what I read from your blogs, you sound like such a well rounded, intelligent, sassy and chic lady. Furthermore, you are blessed with such a beautiful smart little girl. These ” see lai” must feel so inferior when they are with you. Hey…it is a dirty job having to be a smart, sassy lady with beautiful child….but someone gotta do it. So to those hate mongers…nah nah nah!!!!
apala…8 por! dun care la..