I am such a lenient employer that I sometimes give my helper a choice to either follow me out or stay home. She always, ALWAYS chooses to stay home when given that choice (which is almost all the time unless I feel I really need her! Hey, I like my privacy too.). Going out with me means work. Staying at home could mean work or it could mean rest. I really don’t mind either way as long as things are in order. She is only human and needs rest and off days too. And of course, when I struggle like hell with 2 kids in a busy mall alone, I go fuck-fuck-fuck. Why didn’t I bring her?!!! Stoopid!!!
However, when I decided to do a spot check one day, I found that all she did all day was cook her own meals and change one bedroom’s bed sheet. The rest of the day was spent inside her room. How do I know this? We have a CCTV installed in our living room, the kitchen and in the kids bedroom. It’s OK. Maybe it was her off day.
How do you manage your helpers when you leave them at home???
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Our maid is arriving next week and I think I should install a CCTV as well!
Mine choose to stay home too but if it’s a long day or two away, I give her some tasks to do. Don’t assume they’ll find things to do, write a list of chart of to-dos… at least then you can measure if she has met your expectations. they are not that ‘seng mook’.
I never never bring my maid out cos she can go out on her own.
Anyway my maid left me just last Sunday 🙁 boooooo