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I’ve been doing some thinking lately how difficult it must be for some people to find friends. Let’s say you are the daughter of the Prime Minister, or some famous celebrity or perhaps your dad is Donald Trump; maybe you yourself are the person of attraction because of some reason or other. How would you know if people are being friends with you for you, or for a reason.

There is this girl whom EVERYBODY wants to be friends with, because she is influential and wealthy. She possesses all the good qualities too of a friend; she’s caring, helpful, compassionate, fun, full of love and most importantly, she’s genuine. Yet, to her, everyone is so nice, because everyone really IS so nice to her! But had she NOT been influential nor wealthy, where then do her good qualities put her in Society Malaysia? I say this because we have gone out looking looking like maids and we have gone out looking like Datins, and believe you me when I say the response you get from the general public and even friends of friends, is apalling, disgusting, pathetic  astonishing!!!

Because of this fact, I am slow to trust. I had a friend for the last few years who did all the right things that exhibited that she really cared about me. She would bring me food when I was ill, call just to ask how I was, listen when listening was needed, helped when help was required etc etc etc. I stopped hearing from her exactly this year because I suspect, the project is now over and I am no longer needed. The largest corporate office project in town is now completed. I had won the project several years ago for my then company, and knew many in-roads to details of the project. Or maybe, she has just been so busy that I have slipped lower on her list of priorities.

Then there is the friend who suddenly wants to meet up, stay over and be best friends just like old times. The friend who wants to help babysit until you find out that she actually just needs a hiding place from her boyfriend. What about the friend who lost all contact with his birth mother and after helping him round the world to find her again, I get no thanks. But instead, he cannot be friends with me because his wife won’t allow it. I’ve given many things up for friends without thanks so maybe thank you is just a difficult word to say.

Of course, we could argue till the cows come home about this. I am very clear whenever I do something for someone. I just want to touch hearts but lack the experience. I don’t do ulterior motives and hidden agendas. Some people think I’m *fill in the blanks, because they think so many things!*. But hey, if that’s what *whatever it is you filled in* is, then OK, I’m *whatever it is you filled in*.

As for me, my friends know. I don’t call unless I need something. If I cared about you, I care about you. If I called or emailed every friend to ask how they were, Tee wouldn’t be eating. So yes, whilst contacting friends is not high on my list of priorities, I do care about all of you. And I do think about all of you. And I WILL be there if any of you needed me. I treat the rich and the poor the same because I have seen it all and what means anything is your heart. Many people can decorate their own heart to look a certain way but that doesn’t last forever. It can last a long time, but not forever.

I do think many of the wealthy have been fooled in trusting over-achieving ‘friends’ who have gotten rich themselves through their friendships with them. For that reason, I am really myself everywhere I go. So people know me for me. And see me for me. If I’ve said anything that hurt anyone, I’m sorry, because if you really knew me, you’d know that hurting someone would be the last of my intentions.

So please, just allow me to be me.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!

Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.

She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.