Lessons my Mom taught me – Part 13 of 23

Not everyone who appears to be good is actually good

Whoaaaa!!!! This took me soooo….. long to learn even though my Mom planted this into my head over a decade ago.

I always saw the good in people, so desperate to be loved and liked, and for that, was easily bullied believe it or not, especially through severe people pleasing mode in the past, with a genuine desire to serve.

It took me 3 blocks of building community FAILURES over a whole decade to finally realise it to create my greatest masterpiece.

Kerpow!!!

Here’s the juice :

Because Mom was married to a Tan Sri for a bit (jack to me, all these titles, entitled labels….) but to some, they are as close to the Holy Grail with little minions rushing to kiss the floors they walk on; a girl I once met online, very quickly buddied up with Mom, offering her the kindest gestures that I didn’t even do for my own mother.

Later, I found out that her husband was coming out to start his own business, and wanted the Tan Sri to open a few doors, so going directly to Mom was her best move.

I joked with Mom hinting that she might replace me with a new ‘better’ daughter soon, and that is when Mom said, not everyone who appears to be good is actually good.

A woman with wisdom!

Long story short, I no longer hear from this ‘friend’ of mine after Mom’s passing because presumably, her direct through line to the Tan Sri has been cut.

So take heed.

Exactly as I posted on my Whatsapp STATUS today – Be careful.…. not all are what they seem. Some pretend to be the lovely beach , but are actually quicksand….

Bye-Bye…..

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