That’s what my mother does as she knows no other way, apart from dishing out dosh. Many mothers show their love through cooking. It is quite amazing that I have learnt to show love in other ways. It proves that just because you didn’t get it doesn’t mean you cannot give it. It means that the world is a big place and the many people in it have many different ideas. Just because she doesn’t cook for you doesn’t mean she does not love you. Similarly, just because my Mother does not spend time with us does not mean she doesn’t love us.
OK, I’m rambling on. Here’s what my Mother cooked for us tonight. The food was so good that I missed out on the pictures. Sorry!
1. steamed soya sauce tofu topped with fried onions, spring onions and coriander
2. stir fried vegetables – broccoli, carrots, snow peas and
3. beef rendang with potatoes
4. chilli chicken – my absolute favourite!!!
5. green vegetable soup
6. pan fried cod garnished with coriander and spring onions
7. eaten together with glorious fragrant jasmine white rice!!!
It is important to understand a person well before you conclude that they do not love you, as every person shows their love differently. I cannot stress this point enough. So many women are fixated with cliches and narrow mindedness and I wish and wish that they would see a broader perspective of this world. Besides, so what if that somebody’s whose love it is you are craving for does not love you? Love yourself!!! It is the greatest life lesson I’ve learnt thus far.
What constitutes love to you? How do you show your love? How do others show you their love?
**************************************************************************Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.
Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!
Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.
A beautiful life without limits.
If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.
She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.
