Because this year’s party was super special marking an important milestone in Tee’s life and that she celebrates no longer being an only child, there were a few lessons that I wanted Tee to learn. The first being that she is so, so, soooooooo, sooooooooooooooooo darn lucky to even have a birthday party, let alone one at this scale. The second lesson was that she should never expect any presents from anyone, even if it was her birthday. I told her that if people took the time off to come for her birthday party to celebrate with her, that alone is a present in itself, which she accepted. Thirdly, I told her that she needed to thank the people who came for coming and it would indeed be more special if she worked hard to make something for her friends instead of just buying them a gift from Toys ‘R’ Us.

I mean, who even has time to make anything these days and how often has Tee actually received  a ‘made’ gift? She has received several home-made gifts from Nana comprising cardigans, clothes and a patchwork quilt and from her boyfriend, lots of home-made cards. I pointed out to her that only the people who truly thought she was special would bother taking the time to slog and make a home-made gift with the lesson being that made gifts brought more meaning than purchased gifts and then took the opportunity too to teach her that actions spoke louder than words. No point saying I love you everyday but be unavailable. Show it! She got it. She’s a smart kid.

So for her birthday party, she was very excited to MAKE gifts for her special friends. Not everyone had every gift as she made the decision who to get what but generally, here’s what most of them got.

For the girls, hand and machine sewn five stones. Mommy and Daddy did the sewing, Tee had to fill the rice in.

We made 10 sets of five stones for 10 girls. That’s 50 little rice sacks small enough for tiny hands to play.

Each set of 5 stones were filled into a small green pouch (so they won’t lose them!) which was hand embroidered to show the little girl’s initial. Can you see the alphabet ‘T’ below? Of course, the birthday girl insisted that she wanted a set of her own too.

The boys got hand-painted bottle caps. Mommy bought the bottle caps and Tee painfully painted the bottle caps. Some boys received 5 bottle caps, some 10, depending on whether or not they had boy siblings. I can’t remember how many bottle caps we had in total, certainly more than 50. Tee also had to stack them up into the little boxes that we had for them to store their bottle caps.

We initialed and colour coded the bottle caps so that boys could play and know which ones were their soldiers and which ones were that of their opponents.

Then we hand-made bookmarks for every kid to inculcate the habit of reading. We made it with felt, thread, beading and that hard plastic papery thingies that you find in men’s shirt collars?

Of course, they had to be initialed as well with said 20 kid’s names. The girls got more girlie designs with flowers and the boys got frogs. You could see that after 15 hand sewn bookmarks, the designs got less and less complicated, hahaha……and the workmanship started deteriorating. Sorry!

The 3rd hand made gift was a painting and poor Tee, she had to hand paint a LOT of these 4 leaf clovers for the friend’s of her choice.  After hand-painting, she had to colour them (Mommy helped with some colouring, especially when she started getting blisters on her fingers!) in and write words on them. It took her 3 weeks, I think, to complete everything. But I am so proud of her. She also did it because she wanted to so that made me really proud.

Here’s a typical sample of what the boys received, all handmade. A bookmark, a painting by Tee and hand-painted bottle caps in little boxes. Of course, many of the kids probably won’t even appreciate the gifts nor take care of them, but we made them. And we felt a seed of joy within when we made them. What they want to do with them is up to them, or up to their own Moms to teach them.

On top of the hand-made gifts, each kid received a silver party pack filled with goodies – sweets, chocolate, little toys etc. This wasn’t necessary after all our hard work above but what the heck!

Tee was also involved in the flag making that were strung all along the poolside of the party venue. Daddy sewed the flags, Nana cut them to size and Tee with the help of Uncle Ben and Aunty Trina, strung them.

She had lots of fun doing it!

She had also searched the net (yes, my daughter knows how to google!) for green images and chose them herself which Mommy printed and laminated. Then she arranged them on the floor to be strung. We had several of these banners all over the party venue too.

All in all, it was a great experience, a whole 6 weeks of party planning and fun projects whilst Mommy was in confinement.

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