One part of me is saying, you just DO!!! And then the other part is saying, you never do……

What’s your take?

When we have our first wafts of love at the post-pubescent age of 14, we are all so sure that HE is IT/ or she is it (for any male readers out there). SO sure. Cock sure. This is THE guy I am walking down the aisle with. First love. The one you never forget. Remember???

Alas, someone grows faster than the other and the first love turns into sour pain. Oh, such pain!!! And you swear never to love again…….There are some fortunate few that make it from first love to the end but they are very few and far between……

Then, as maturity sets in, we experiment a little in our hunt for Mr Right on the roller coaster adventure of love. And decide later who needs men!??!! We could be single forever and still be OKAY!!!

Then BANG.

He got you. There isn’t even an OUNCE of doubt that this is it. And this is after years of experience. This is really it. You blend together like chalk and cheese. You complete each other like nobody else could. You miss one another that it aches so much to be apart. You know what the other is thinking, even if you’re as different as the North Pole and the Equator. You have complete trust in one another. You can even make decisions for each other independently of each other correctly.

Somehow, you just connect……..at all levels. Your family loves him. Your friends love him. And most of all, you love him. This really is it.

So what happens then when after twenty years with Mr Right, things go awry and divorce sets in? Well, obviously, you made a wrong call. Either you didn’t want to face the truth, you didn’t want to see things you were supposed to see or you or your partner changed. This happens. People change. It’s a fact of life.

So as right as Mr Right is at that very moment, just bear in mind that he may not be Mr Right forever……..

And if you’re not 500% sure that he is Mr Right, then don’t even wish that things will change and get better one day. Because it won’t. If he really is the right one, you will know. You just will know. If you even have to ask, but how will I know? Then he is not the right one……because really, you will know.

Remember people, never……ever……..settle……for any less than what you deserve.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!

Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.

She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.