Many a time, I am misunderstood. Sometimes I feel so little people know me but that’s OK. It’s OK to be misunderstood because what does it mean? Either people are stupid, close minded or just not experienced enough in life or I am a bad communicator.

I am not the most tactful person because I have been taught to treat others how you want to be treated. Thus with me, I want the cold and honest truth. No beating around the bush, no icing on the cake, no modelling of clay to make pretty, just tell it to me like it is. I don’t need anyone to be nice to me. I prefer people who dare to tell me that my daughter is rude. And truthfully, how many people do that? Well, I do ( to other people, I’m sorry). But sad to say, I don’t have anyone telling me such honest truths except maybe my Mom??? Or the Hubs???

Bah. I need to meet more people who will offer me truth. I have strong instincts that I have inherited from my Mom and many a time, I feel that people are just too nice. Yes, of course it is good to be nice, but not to the point you are being untruthfully nice. Is there even such a thing?

Yes, there is.

There’s something about Malaysians who want to be nice to people who are rich and famous, for example. Take the waiter at your local hotel. If you booked your table as a Datuk, be assured that your service is different from the rest of us commoners. Or maybe you come in with a string of bodyguards? Again, service is that much better. If you are a famous local celebrity? Same story. I have never understood it. This trickles down to society at large, not just between waiters and patrons.

There are a few friends of mine who are so nice to me and guess what? They are just fucking genuinely nice. I cherish their friendships even though I have done nothing for them yet I totally appreciate everything that they have ever done for me. And then there are some who approach me with caution. They are nice yet they tread carefully. I wonder why?! What could I have done or said to make them so cautious?

This makes me search internally because that is the first place I believe where I should be looking. What have I done or not done, said or not said, to allow such people to not see me as I truly am? I believe I am quite transparent yet private, in a warped sense. I don’t share a lot yet I share a lot.

An example, I can pretend to be in love with money just to assess the reactions of the people around me. Those who know me, know. Those who don’t, will misunderstand.

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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin is a former Design Architect turned Multi-Million Dollar Digital Entrepreneur. She sets out to prove to all that you can have anything and everything that you want; if you have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with much love.

Mamapumpkin has not only grown corporate businesses successfully in the past and doubled her salary 5 times over 5 organisations but has grown THREE BUSINESSES to 7 FIGURES within an 8 year period. She now shows others EXACTLY HOW after retiring her own husband from employment. He is now the official dog walker, family driver, chef and THE BEST FATHER to their two girls and THE BEST HUSBAND to the woman who CHOSE HIM!

Mamapumpkin is the girl who has nothing but fights for everything including YOU. She is idealistic in her desire to put unbelievable amounts of money and extrardinary happiness into the lives of good people so we can change the world together believing in happiness for ALL. She strives to impact lives authentically wanting to reduce poverty cycles and enable quality education for all and always supports the voiceless. She believes we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world. But first, one needs to understand what this all means.

A beautiful life without limits.

If you wish to learn how to propel your life forward guaranteed, be brave to take action. Mamapumpkin's purpose is to build people. Her gift is to help them UNCOVER their HIDDEN GIFTS. She operates fairly and always leaves an impression. You either love her or not and she is alright either way.

She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially and time free has enabled her to travel the world anytime, anywhere, doing anything with anyone, as she spends most of her days with her children, having fun, supporting others wherever she can. Also having fun.