Mamapumpkin??? Once upon a time, she designed buildings and interiors of corporate offices and on the rare occasion, homes. Now, she cleans poop and is student of a patience management course. From the drawing board as a London Architect to the realities of Motherhood, she has certainly learned many lessons in humility. And then others.....
To succeed in the corporate world, first succeed with your kid as the happy boss. Seriously.
This blog is about Mamapumpkin: A crazy, demented Mom who cares full time, alone, without any help, for an even crazier preschooler AND a baby with a boob addiction problem.
She writes anything that comes out of her head, mostly without thinking first, which almost always gets her into trouble (according to her husband, whom she considers the love of her life.......on a good day).
Her 2 pet monkeys drive her towards challenge after challenge, 24/7. Day after Day.....and by the way, her parents are Muslim, her in-laws Buddhist, she's Catholic and her Hubs, an Atheist. She's thinking her kids should be Hindu, just to complete the rainbow religion cycle.
Gotta love it.
She'd love to hear from you : Mamapumpkin at gmail dot com

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By Mamapumpkin, on August 31st, 2010%
T1 came home this week singing an unfamiliar song to a familiar tune. It is quite clever how her school teaches them to remember by making them learn the facts through songs, since children are naturally predisposed to learning musically and it works!
Although T1 (being her father’s daughter, his ambition was to be an astronaut and so he has taught her everything about space) already knew the planets of the solar system since she was very young, she didn’t know the configuration in which they were placed. But now she does!
Allow me to share the song the school taught so your kids too can benefit. It is about the planets sung to the tune of the nursery rhyme, THIS OLD MAN.
MERCURY, NUMBER ONE
IT IS CLOSEST TO THE SUN
CHORUS: WITH A ROUND, ROUND, GO AROUND, PLANETS ROUND THE SUN, SING ABOUT THEM EVERYONE!!
VENUS BRIGHT, NUMBER TWO
MORNING AND EVENING ‘STAR’ WE VIEW CHORUS
PLANET EARTH, NUMBER THREE
WE LIVE ON IT, YOU AND ME CHORUS
PLANET MARS, NUMBER FOUR
NAMED FOR A ROMAN GOD OF WAR CHORUS
NUMBER FIVE, JUPITER
COLOURED CLOUDS AROUND IT STIR CHORUS
NUMBER SIX, BIG SATURN
MANY RINGS AROUND IT TURN CHORUS
NUMBER SEVEN, URANUS
IT LOOKS BLUE AND GREEN TO US CHORUS
NUMBER EIGHT, STORMY NEPTUNE
TRITON IS ITS FROZEN MOON CHORUS
NUMBER NINE, DWARF PLUTO
FARTHEST FROM THE SUN, YOU KNOW CHORUS
By Mamapumpkin, on August 29th, 2010%
Have you ever been there?
When they first started, I used to hang out here having breakfast with friends (read T1′s friend’s moms) as I was always too lazy to drop T1 off at school, go home and then pick her up again 3 hours later. Instead, I’d spent many hours chatting about the Earth and the Sun and the Moon in this modernesque kopitiam.
We’d try all the local coffees they offered and every single dish on the menu. I think it was more that we were just addicts of Dewi’s Corner that automatically drew us to that same corner lot! The quality of F&B used to be a lot better but lately, it has deteriorated somewhat.
When my cousins were in town from Oz, we went to Chawan every day!

Half boiled eggs with kaya toast.
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Nasi Lemak with deep fried chicken. Apparently, the chicken was out of this world. It possibly brought your heart out of this world too!
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More kaya toast, anyone?
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My favourite – plain packet nasi lemak.
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Ever since the lack of consistency at Chawan since my cousins left, I have not gone back. Out of 5 times I’d been there, they just couldn’t get their teh tarik right. It was different EVERY SINGLE TIME. Eventually, I got fed up and bored of having to send it back. I’d still go for the food though. Not great but enough to satisfy a craving.
By Mamapumpkin, on August 25th, 2010%

These are the chairs at the Digi outlet where we did the big crossover. T1 and I loved them chairs because they were stylish, multi-functional and comfortable. Digi really is the telco of the future.

T1 said she could use the chair as a desk whilst she eats her favourite Yow Char Kuay.

And use it as a normal chair.
I must say, in the 3 times that I have been to various Digi outlets in town, service has been first class. And just so you know, the Digi guy in the Solaris branch was real cute. They all speak impeccable English and were able to answer all my questions. I had to go to enquire what would happen to my Blackberry services when I travel and was kindly warned that I should TURN OFF my data connections when I arrive (or rather before I arrived) because I would receive tons of welcome messages and emails and whatever else into my email and I will be charged international rates accordingly. VERY EXPENSIVE. Apparently, they had a client who didn’t turn his Blackberry services off and when he landed, all his emails came in through the foreign telco and his bill ended up being RM18,000 plus. No kidding. Data services are VERY expensive abroad.
They do have a package though that will give me a connection for RM36 per day but I’m not sure I even want to go there. I will probably just keep my data services on my phone OFF throughout the trip. I can live without the internet, can’t I???
Or, can I?
By Mamapumpkin, on August 24th, 2010%
After being with Maxis for the last 13 years, yesterday our entire family moved over to the bright side. If we had moved over to Celcom, I’d have called it the dark side. Sorry, Mr Celcom.

The move was fast, simple and painless. We went to the Digi outlet at the Pavillion and told them we wanted to move over. Funnily, the Maxis outlet was directly opposite the Digi outlet and was a lot more busy than the Digi outlet.

For the last year, we’d Mmm…ed and Aaahhh….ed, wanting to switch just because whenever an enterprise gets too big for its boots, they need a bit of competition, ya know? But the uncertainties held us back. I had confidence in Digi because their foreign counterparts had been my clients when I was working at the twin towers and they had not only paid BIG BUCKS for their office space, they were very clever people. But the Hubs just wasn’t a stickler for change. Since he lost his job however, he was FORCED to get out of his comfort zone for Digi was a whole lot cheaper.
To cut a long story, we’ve been on Digi for more than 2 weeks now and our bill came up to RM78 versus RM290 with Maxis. Granted, it is only a half months bill pro-rated but still! For us, there has been no difference in line service. My Blackberry works just as fast for internet and we’ve not had any call drops yet. In fact, for one third the price of the green telco, I’d expect less! But so far, they’ve been fantastic! Who says cheap is worse?
I’m LOVING our new yellow telco!
NB – if you want more information on rates and our package, email me. It really is worth it but I believe this special promotional price ends by mid September after which they’ll probably get more competitive again. So catch it whilst you can!
By Mamapumpkin, on August 23rd, 2010%
Apart from spewing verbal diarrhea all over the internet (which releases a lot of internal tension hence good for health), I love blogging because it gives my heart a good workout (again, good for health).
Yes, thumpety-thump-thump……my heart aches tremendously and cries out loud when I read of stabbingly painful sadness (Katie, you are an incredibly brave woman for sharing this and I thank you so much for doing so as it not only creates awareness and helps a lot of people attempt to understand similar circumstances but you could be saving lives, real lives. And I hate that people even dare judge you – please, please don’t feel hurt by them, they have no clue and karma will come a calling. I’m sure you’re converting all that pain into love for Baby G right now).
And then my heart goes into anxious palpitations when I read of the struggles of a Mom with a child who is ill, the stress, the mental, physical and fiscal exhaustion they have to endure as a family and I can relate because she is the same age as T1. I told T1 about her and she would like to meet her and be friends with her.
My heart melts into a calm of wonderment and mush when I read about myself. Myself??? Yeah, me! I wasn’t excited when I read it, rather very, very, VERY touched (thank you again, Claire). Claire is a wonderful mother of teenagers (oh, that may make her sound a little older but I can assure you her mind is as fresh as cold, sweet strawberries, how she was in her twenties!) whom I will go to when I have children problems as she is way more experienced than I am. She works doubly hard (as she lost her husband many years ago, though he is always with her and her children in spirit) with a day job AND a night job (writing) towards an early retirement so she can shake her booties so please help support her in doing so. There is much to learn from Clair if you take your time to browse her blog.
And last but not least, my heart just this week released a million bursts of hearts all over my bloodstream when a blogging Mom offered to send me money to tie us over, to pay for us to have a holiday and to help the Hubs find a new job. I mean, how is that possible? Many people have commented that I have a big heart (and I owe this completely to my mother, she threatened me with the cane and said GROW YOUR HEART because really, I’d rather be selfish!) but you don’t know what a big heart is till you’ve met this person. I’m completely blown over. A blog friend. I think I’m loving my blog friends more these days……..with no intention of forsaking my non-blog friends whatsoever.
Blogging. It has changed my life, for better not for worse.
By Mamapumpkin, on August 6th, 2010%

We have tried practically every cereal on the supermarket shelves in making T2 eat her darn cereal!!! She just doesn’t seem to like cereal and the only cereal she seemed to have eaten the most was the tin of organic cereal from Bangsar Village which costs almost RM30 per pop. She started with that (given from a dear friend) and seems to like that the best. Nothing else has worked. She’d eat up to 10 little baby tea spoons and she’d be done. Where as when we first started her on that organic cereal, she’d eat up to fifty spoons and finish her bowl. Are your babies fussy about cereal brands and cereal flavours?
I’d say her next favourite if at all, would be the fruity multi-grain cereal by Nestle.

Here’s one cereal that we haven’t tried yet though because I noticed a defect within the packaging even before I’d opened the plastic bag with cereal in it. I first saw an insect inside the box, then some eggs, and then at closer look, the cereal was moldy and wet inside. EEEEWWWWWEEEE!!!! It cost RM17.90 and is some organic cereal but EEEWWWEEE!!! I’m so glad I noticed it before serving it to her. We got it exchanged but they could only give us back a new box of that same cereal so I’m still not sure if I want to make her that cereal. It is rather telling of their QC at their food factory!!! I might just chuck it in the bin. YUCK.
By Mamapumpkin, on July 30th, 2010%
I am severely pissed and deeply saddened. This is our 3rd encounter with disappointment over this air carrier. The 1st was when they broke T1′s stroller and only compensated us RM200 when it cost RM800 to buy a new stroller. The 2nd was when my cousin came down from Australia with tons of Ski Yogurt for Mom (and this was so important because Mom lives on this yogurt as she can hardly eat due to her cancer) and chocolate for us, and his baggage went missing, only to be found 5 days later in India. Needless to say, all the yogurt had gone bad and our chocs were in bad shape. Now, my sister-in-law, first and foremost flies MAS for the 1st time ever and books it from the US using a credit card that she never uses except for holidays, and voila, guess what happened?
When she was paying for her air ticket, MAS asked her for a photocopy of her credit card on both sides and she said, why would you need that? They gave her some reason, then they asked her for her 3 digit number (you know the last 3 digits on your credit card?), and without thinking as she was so harrassed that it was sooooooo difficult to purchase a ticket from MAS, she gave it to them. In a matter of hours, her credit card company called her to verify that her card was being used overseas big time and her card had to be cancelled immediately.
So she’s finally arrived in Malaysia and guess what? Ding-dong-ding-dong!!!! Her baggage is missing. I am PISSED because in that bag, was a request for a few tins of Godiva hot chocolate. In that bag, was all the stuff that we’d requested for her to buy that we couldn’t get here. In that bag, were Nike shoes for my Mother-in-Law, in that bag were cowboy boots that was being transported back for one of the Hubs’ colleagues……the list goes on.
I am so sad and disappointed that this is my home airline. Can all this not be avoided? Really? There are just too many cronies out there and it pisses me off!
By Mamapumpkin, on July 26th, 2010%
Last year, I was forbidden to eat my favourite delicacy till the end of my pregnancy due to gestational diabetes so being the great big huge glutton that I am, I am now more than making up for it. My excuse? It produces really good breast milk!
Last weekend, I grabbed my Mom and friend all the way from Ampang to SS2 to savour the Raja Kunyit Durian (otherwise known as Mow Sang Wong), as I had been the previous weekend with a girlfriend and it had been SOOOOOOOOO good.

On week 1, we paid RM54 for 1 miserable durian with perhaps 10 seeds inside and out of the 10, 3 seeds were not perfectly ripe. My girlfriend, the efficient negotiator, demanded that we should get a perfect durian for that price. It was an exorbitant price after all! We’re looking at more than RM5 per seed, OK? So the vendor presented us with a small durian on the house. We were happy campers, as we were full and it was GOOD.

Week 2 however, the Raja Kunyit that we ate cost RM45 and was good but not great. We ordered another but it was lousy. Then he gave us another, and it was still lousy. So he told us that was it. That was the best he could do. So we left for Swensens instead.

In the past, I’d taken another girlfriend to Kepong (near Garden International School) to eat kampung durians and it cost us RM18 for 10 durians. No kidding. The 2 of us, we whacked all 10 (although they are much smaller in size) and were filled to the brim but equally satisfied. In fact, we gave the vendor RM25 and told him to keep the change but he refused! This was an old orang asli man. We insisted and won, after 10 minutes of quibbling.
So would I pay RM54 for a great durian and eat 5 seeds or pay RM20 for still pretty good durians, but eat to my heart’s content?
By Mamapumpkin, on July 21st, 2010%
When I was a teenager, I used to frequent the famous Soong Kee beef ball noodles on Jalan Silang, near Kota Raya, as I used to take the public bus to school (and other places…..). I didn’t have a driver all my life, despite common misperceptions! And after I started driving my own car, hardly went back there as parking was a real pain.
I was pleasantly surprised then 20 years later that they still exist and are now in Lot 10! It has been ages since I went to Lot 10 but when I did, there was a whole new food court that served all the famous hawker fare that we are all familiar with. My first food dive had to be Soong Kee’s famous beef ball noodles as I hadn’t had it for years! It was good, but not as good as I’d remembered it. Perhaps they are now more commercialised in an upmarket shopping mall and quite possibly lacked the flavours of public bus exhaust fumes lining the roadside cuisine. That made all the difference.

By Mamapumpkin, on July 20th, 2010%
After a long time of begging, we finally allowed T1 to start the gym this year. But we’ve stopped everything else.
I find this a suitable gym for this age group as they teach the kids some solid gymnastic skills (like handstands, cartwheels, roll-overs, somersaults, balance beams and lots more!) yet it is done in a fun environment. And the best thing is that the kids get to burn lots of energy and come home exhausted and hungry, then pass out after they are fed. Woohoo! What more can a mom ask for?!
Having been involved in gymnastics before as a teen, the first thing I did was to inspect their equipment. You can tell how professional a gym is from there. They passed the test with standard 5 layers of chip foam for absorption of impact with double carpeting.

I observed how well the staff knew their stuff. I know exactly how the body should work in a gym so I was able to identify if they were half past six staff or ones with experience. They passed that test too.


Showing off as usual…..


Warming up sessions…..before class starts.


Running on a beam….

She still can’t go down to a back bend from standing position. I used to be able to do that with incredible ease (chehhhhh…… all the terror stuff I USED TO DO must also show off a bit).

What I also like about the gym is that kids get to practise other sport skills like golf, racket games, ball games etc; all in the name of better coordination and improving strength, stamina and confidence.

T1, the happy camper at gym class. She has never wanted to miss a single day of class and absolutely LOVES her gym class.

T2 will start as soon as she hits her 1st birthday!
It is great fun! I highly recommend it as this physical activity actually stimulates brain activity, little do the kiasu parents know…..*hick*

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