The Unbearable Lightness of Being

I am blessed that I have learnt so much in my youth, lessons that were taught to me or discovered accidentally that can now in my adulthood be put to good use. I am so glad. And despite or perhaps because of my own Mother’s unfortunate life of despair and pain, she did her best to ensure that I always stood tall with my head held high (despite how physically short I am) and to have enough self esteem to fight for what is right always (the truth always prevails as long as you are never dishonest).


I have always been that girl who would go up to talk to that new girl at school who hadn’t made any friends because she came in at mid term. I would walk away from girl cliques and welcomed anyone and everyone to join us. When I started a class investment fund (we were 9) collecting 20 cents from everyone in class, everyone paid and participated in my little business venture. I have no idea what spurred me to do that. At work, I was also the one who would go up to a newbie from abroad to make him feel welcome. Hijjas was such a big international office yet nobody gave this new guy the time of day. So I did it. And he eventually became a Director of Architecture and started dating a girl who was very jealous of me back then. I was successful in the construction design industry then that everyone knew who I was and yes, I did have haters. But it was never a problem because as I have practised time and time and again, as long as you are honest and do good, karma always prevails. What goes around comes around. I have seen this and experienced this TOO many times that I no longer doubt it for a second.

Recently a group of women went around bitching about me (yeah again…..aren’t you bored already?) and I DID NOTHING. I didn’t flinch. My blood pressure didn’t climb. My cells did not vibrate into another gear. All was calm. In fact I was even entertained. The reason people would even have the time of day to bitch about you is because??? Think about it. I spent zero energy even trying to explain myself to those that they bitched to because I felt that the smart ones would see right through them and the stupid ones would follow them, better now than later that I know who is smart and who is stupid, correct? It’s like history repeating itself all over again as this same incident happened just 2 years ago with the Mamapumpkin group of women on Facebook. Lalalalalalala…….

I have been busy building and raising good people and I am succeeding. I wish they would do the same instead of wasting time trying to bring others down. That way, they could succeed too and then they would not have to spend any time bringing others down as they would be too busy enjoying life!

Have you watched the Unbearable Lightness of Being? It’s a story on Karma.

I have seen again blessing after blessing whilst these 3 ladies try to bring me down. As my mentors advised, just be still. Nothing needs to be done. My mentors flew to Japan on a mission and victory was accomplished. I need not worry about scumbags who continuously attack me because they have no other purpose in life. All I need to do is continue reading my books, continue helping the good people, continue having fun planning my holidays and rest sufficiently to heal. Honestly, how evil are these people anyway to go around doing what they do yet preach about the opposite. God is watching you, my lovelies.

Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett BSc in Architecture. She spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this Mamapumpkin blog since over 10 years ago and thereafter returned to the Corporate World stronger than ever. Her last job as Country Director of a British Railway Signalling organisation saw her getting ill with an aortal and mitral heart valve regurgitation and early stage cancer. Through her journey from working to not working to working again, she sets out to prove to all women that they can do anything and everything that they set out to do; as long as they have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with oodles of love, passion and integrity.

Despite being ill, she has grown a network marketing business from very little knowledge and experience in the otherwise infamously known MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, racing from an income of ZERO to RM 100,000 monthly in merely 2 years. She is a firm believer of the MLM business model but realises the pitfalls too and understands how and why the majority of people would shy away (or zoom far away) from any MLM business.

She is now pondering the title of her new book, From Zero to 100,000 RM monthly in 2 years and has a sequel in the pipeline with the aim of helping real professionals succeed in the World of MLM. Always the giver, Mamapumpkin has supported orphans for over 30 years and has now extended her care to the sick, single mothers, and even struggling families. She believes that with the MLM business model, we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world.

A beautiful life without limits.

Mamapumpkin currently manages the Homeschooling Hub Malaysia on Facebook. She also runs Working Women Malaysia (not THAT kind of Working Women!), Mamapumpkin - Creating A Life of Abundance, and Funky Moms on Facebook to offer REAL support to all women who want career and life success. She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially free has enabled her to travel the world anytime anywhere doing anything, and she spends most of her day to day with her children, reading and supporting other women.

For enquiries, please contact her at mamapumpkin at gmail dot com or WhatsApp her at +6012-2333840
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