If you knew me well, you would know instantly that life was my parade. Yes. Life. My life. I have a good life. People cannot stand it. I do not comprehend why? What does my life have to do with another? Yet as I get along with my life, there will be bumps along the way because some people just HAVE to push me over to fall. Have you ever experienced that? Just imagine, you’re gliding along the water in your water skis or surfboard and then a huge shark speeds towards you and bumps you off. You are not a threat to them nor are you disturbing them in any way. The ocean is so huge. The shark has ample space to play and go elsewhere but it chooses you for some reason. Yeah, so that’s what happens to me every now and again and I accept it because there will always be haters and as long as I continue my life BRAVE and PUBLIC, that this is what I have to face. You don’t see cowards appearing in public sharing bits about themselves do you? No, everyone is private. I share in the hope that my experiences help another. And you know what? It actually HAS!!! So I continue sharing. I know I am doing a good thing. Whether or not those haters can take it is their business. I may bruise here and there but ultimately I am still doing a good thing to improve the lives of others. My karma is mine.
The funniest thing is that these people are all fighting with and within themselves. They talk bad about you, they soothe themselves with all their talk, and then take action to see you fall. However, what falling means to them and what falling is to me, couldn’t be further definitions. So actually, I have not fallen at all. To them, I have fallen but to me it is just a blink of an eye. Seriously. I feel so sorry for them and pray for their enlightenment.
I have seen some very bitter divorce cases in my life that are not pretty. One was when a serious drug pusher won custody over the kids (yes, how on Earth does that happen?) and then molests them whilst pushing the mother into a dog house. Some people are that sick and the reality is that these people really do exist. What does the world do? Nothing. Nobody wants to get involved. Worse, even people at authority level condone it or shy away from it. Meanwhile, the abuse continues.
Sometimes, people who want to see you suffer will do everything it takes to see you suffer. They are just evil pure and simple. There is nothing else to mention. It is in their DNA to win and trample on you. But if only they knew that if they had just asked, I would have given them the winning trophy anytime without them having to act out all the nasties, know what I mean? The world is getting so fucked with fuckwits seriously. Bombings everywhere, politicians with carrots up their arses, parents going crazy, values going belly up, what has the world come to? There is too much greed and self serving narcissists.
In my youth, although my parents were hardly around to nurture us, we were happy. The world was a safe place to be. We roamed around our neighbourhood freely and could walk into almost any house along the hill because everyone knew everyone and it literally was a village caring for the children. How I miss those days where everyone was so helpful and life was so simple. We always had good thoughts and only positive actions upon another. There was no unkindness.
Yet it is this exact shelter of human beings in such perfect and beautiful environments that throws them into shock when they are exposed to evil. I have never seen such evil!!!!! Sometimes I wonder if I am hallucinating it all yet it is very real. The evil does exist and it is out to get at me. It is just incredible how people want to get at you whenever they do not get their way but hello? Go find another avenue to bully, please. I am allergic to drama and I just want to enjoy my beautiful life. Please leave me alone.
On hindsight, the women drama that unfolded before me 3 years ago was a stepping stone upwards to be ready for this mega drama. Everyone said, let them be. They will eventually fight amongst themselves because they all have that personality and you know what? They did. Meanwhile, the loyal troopers who stood behind me and followed me to where I am today, well, they are still very much here with me and I am so blessed with them still being around. Birds of a feather tend to flock together and my biggest mistake was to allow a virus into my tribe that completely spoilt it for the rest of us.
Actually, the very reason we are having this drama now is also because of that one virus that I made the mistake to bring in. I guess we live and learn. So many people have said they didn’t want to have anything to do with her and there I was always giving her the benefit of doubt and hoping she would change for the better. No such luck. So now whenever someone else feels that they want to give her a chance out of pity because seriously NOBODY likes not trusts her, I just smile quietly inside because I KNOW that the days for this person and that virus are numbered. Some people will never change.
Anyway, I am off for another holiday this week. To the haters, please stop raining on my parade!!! Go find a vibrator or something to keep yourselves happy!!!**************************************************************************
Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett BSc in Architecture. She spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this Mamapumpkin blog since over 10 years ago and thereafter returned to the Corporate World stronger than ever. Her last job as Country Director of a British Railway Signalling organisation saw her getting ill with an aortal and mitral heart valve regurgitation and early stage cancer. Through her journey from working to not working to working again, she sets out to prove to all women that they can do anything and everything that they set out to do; as long as they have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with oodles of love, passion and integrity.
Despite being ill, she has grown a network marketing business from very little knowledge and experience in the otherwise infamously known MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, racing from an income of ZERO to RM 100,000 monthly in merely 2 years. She is a firm believer of the MLM business model but realises the pitfalls too and understands how and why the majority of people would shy away (or zoom far away) from any MLM business.
She is now pondering the title of her new book, From Zero to 100,000 RM monthly in 2 years and has a sequel in the pipeline with the aim of helping real professionals succeed in the World of MLM. Always the giver, Mamapumpkin has supported orphans for over 30 years and has now extended her care to the sick, single mothers, and even struggling families. She believes that with the MLM business model, we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world.
A beautiful life without limits.
Mamapumpkin currently manages the Homeschooling Hub Malaysia on Facebook. She also runs Working Women Malaysia (not THAT kind of Working Women!), Mamapumpkin - Creating A Life of Abundance, and Funky Moms on Facebook to offer REAL support to all women who want career and life success. She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially free has enabled her to travel the world anytime anywhere doing anything, and she spends most of her day to day with her children, reading and supporting other women.
For enquiries, please contact her at mamapumpkin at gmail dot com or WhatsApp her at +6012-2333840