There are so many people around me that need education. And for the longest time, I have always been patient and felt that every person should be given a second or third fourth fifth chance even, given the benefit of doubt, and you know, we should just be understanding that they may have a story we do not know about.
Until I met this one person whom I prayed would change for the better in time, whom many people said all she needed was education but heck, education takes years and she was not learning! I decided to cut her out. I protected her for 3 years but she always managed to prove me wrong and do another dirty. It pained my heart because I would tell everyone else to give her a chance. But she was ruthless. Power and greed mattered more than anything else yet she could put on a beautiful front for self gain. I found it in low taste. When you have to bully a cancer patient into doing things for you, it seriously tells on you as a person.
I myself am sick and I cannot afford the energy anymore to help this person. I am not sure what her story is to make her the way she is today but it is of no consequence to me because I need to stay away from negative energy. The thing is, it is not just me who feels that way about her. It is a huge community that she has trampled on until her reputation precedes her, people shy away from her. Many a time I have wanted to be the one to tell her the reality and truth but a part of me always questioned if it was worth it because those who do not want to see, will just not see. I felt sorry for her and found ways to help her but enough is enough. I have my own problems now. I need to take care of myself.
I do wonder though if she could indeed change someday. It would take a great big fall perhaps to bring her to realisation just how much she is despised by the community at large regardless of how many put on a pretty face for her. Can a person change? It would take a drastic earth shattering shift to change I think. She is a smart girl so I do pray she will see the light and perhaps apologise to all she has wronged and maybe her sins could slowly bring her back to being the once nice girl she was once upon a time.
Oh, and I happen to know one of her husband’s long time ex-girlfriend. Hee.
How much effort and time would you put into making a change to someone’s life? I know so many cheap people. I’m not sure if it is worth my very precious time. Money is not an incentive at all. Yes, of course money is important but I seriously do not love it the way some people do. Like SERIOUSLY. I could walk away from my business today. The Hubs got counter offered three times since he resigned. We were very OK before I started business. We will be more than ok if I have no business and be the bored housewife instead LOL and now I don’t even have to drive myself. Life is good. But I need to care about my health. And to be honest, that is quite a pain. God, give me more strength to heal.**************************************************************************
Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett BSc in Architecture. She spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this Mamapumpkin blog since over 10 years ago and thereafter returned to the Corporate World stronger than ever. Her last job as Country Director of a British Railway Signalling organisation saw her getting ill with an aortal and mitral heart valve regurgitation and early stage cancer. Through her journey from working to not working to working again, she sets out to prove to all women that they can do anything and everything that they set out to do; as long as they have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with oodles of love, passion and integrity.
Despite being ill, she has grown a network marketing business from very little knowledge and experience in the otherwise infamously known MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, racing from an income of ZERO to RM 100,000 monthly in merely 2 years. She is a firm believer of the MLM business model but realises the pitfalls too and understands how and why the majority of people would shy away (or zoom far away) from any MLM business.
She is now pondering the title of her new book, From Zero to 100,000 RM monthly in 2 years and has a sequel in the pipeline with the aim of helping real professionals succeed in the World of MLM. Always the giver, Mamapumpkin has supported orphans for over 30 years and has now extended her care to the sick, single mothers, and even struggling families. She believes that with the MLM business model, we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world.
A beautiful life without limits.
Mamapumpkin currently manages the Homeschooling Hub Malaysia on Facebook. She also runs Working Women Malaysia (not THAT kind of Working Women!), Mamapumpkin - Creating A Life of Abundance, and Funky Moms on Facebook to offer REAL support to all women who want career and life success. She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially free has enabled her to travel the world anytime anywhere doing anything, and she spends most of her day to day with her children, reading and supporting other women.
For enquiries, please contact her at mamapumpkin at gmail dot com or WhatsApp her at +6012-2333840