I can totally understand why so many celebrities commit suicide and the reason for this is because in a very small way, I have always had a popularity rank. From being that little girl who ruled the classroom to that teenaged lass whom everyone just followed, to over-performing at work and being the heart who touched others, it is bloody tiring keeping up. And the truth of the matter is, I do not want to keep up yet even when you do not, people expect it of you. So you get pulled in all directions because that is you, that is the you they know, that is what you are expected to do. And the moment you stop or decline, the bitching starts. Never ending…..
So can you see why? Can you see how hard it is for celebrities? Because they lose themselves in the web of a fake world and at the end of the day, become disillusioned about who really cares and who doesn’t. They get disappointed by those whom they really thought cared and walk a lonely road ahead. This is what drives them to suicide.
Although I am in a place where I am talked about too, I am nowhere near suicide, God no. But I can see how it gets to them. One has to be very strong and grounded with values in order to separate the real world and the fake world. There is a difference between friends and fans. And although I do not even see my friends once a year sometimes, at least I know that when I do need them, they are there and would drop anything to be beside me as I would them. Fans would not go that mile for you, they are only there for as long as you are popular. Just imagine, if a celebrity lost her parents or husband or kids, that would be the end. But some are stronger than others.
My Mom, bless her heart and sweet soul, taught me that no matter what happens, to always save a piece of myself for me. She taught me this when I was in England studying architecture and I very clearly remember her imparting that piece of advice where she said that no matter what, I will always stand tall regardless of what life throws at me. We cannot please everyone nor do we aim to but stick to what you believe in and do you best work in giving. Even if you are killed doing your best work, you still would have led a clean life doing your very best in helping the work of God.
And another thing my beloved Mom taught me, that was to always stay true to yourself. There is no point tricking yourself into thinking you are great when you really are just another person on the street. No one person is greater than another. Some women go through life brainwashing themselves that their partners love them but hello, if they loved you, you would not be in your misery now!!! Wake up!!! Write the facts down, list the pros and cons, if it isn’t working for you, walk out and leave the man. You can and WILL make a life for yourself and your kids. Don’t be lazy and don’t be scared. Be brave and just do it. It is much harder to walk out on a useless man and struggle to keep everyone afloat than to stay and get free money but live the unhappiness that he bestows upon you. Find your inner strength and just do it.
And this is worst for celebrities because the spotlight is on them. They have no peace and no rest. Every single move they make is judged by the media, by the fans, by the haters. It is tough! But as long as you realise that these are two different worlds that you are living in, all you have to do is press the on off button and you should be good to go.
After 7 years in London committing crimes to gain a Bachelor of Science in Architecture from The Bartlett, Mamapumpkin quit her full time job as the Country Director of a British Railway Signalling organisation in December 2014 due to the diagnosis of her double heart valve (aortal and mitral) regurgitation causing her to be extremely fatigued (insufficient oxygenated blood) and not being able to function as a normal human being. By the Grace of God, she was introduced to Izumio and Super Lutein and her health has rocketed since. She now pledges that it is the best thing that ever happened to her and earns a good living by sharing the benefits of Izumio and Super Lutein to the world.
Mamapumpkin also manages the Homeschooling Hub Malaysia on Facebook. Please LIKE the page and contact her for enquiries. She has just recently started Working Women Malaysia on Facebook to offer support to all women who want career and life success.
For information on Izumio and Super Lutein, please LIKE the Izumio Lutein Malaysia page on Facebook or email her at (mamapumpkin at gmail dot com) and she will be able to respond to all your queries. Or WhatsApp/Call her at 012-2333840.
There is also an Izumio and Super Lutein Resource Centre on Facebook that is strictly for her growing team of customers and medical advisers (yes, there are Doctors in there). This is a place where user sharing is discussed working towards everyone’s best health. And of course, you will be guided towards your business success should you wish to do the Izumio business, a very viable business.
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Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett BSc in Architecture. She spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this Mamapumpkin blog since over 10 years ago and thereafter returned to the Corporate World stronger than ever. Her last job as Country Director of a British Railway Signalling organisation saw her getting ill with an aortal and mitral heart valve regurgitation and early stage cancer. Through her journey from working to not working to working again, she sets out to prove to all women that they can do anything and everything that they set out to do; as long as they have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with oodles of love, passion and integrity.
Despite being ill, she has grown a network marketing business from very little knowledge and experience in the otherwise infamously known MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, racing from an income of ZERO to RM 100,000 monthly in merely 2 years. She is a firm believer of the MLM business model but realises the pitfalls too and understands how and why the majority of people would shy away (or zoom far away) from any MLM business.
She is now pondering the title of her new book, From Zero to 100,000 RM monthly in 2 years and has a sequel in the pipeline with the aim of helping real professionals succeed in the World of MLM. Always the giver, Mamapumpkin has supported orphans for over 30 years and has now extended her care to the sick, single mothers, and even struggling families. She believes that with the MLM business model, we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world.
A beautiful life without limits.
Mamapumpkin currently manages the Homeschooling Hub Malaysia on Facebook. She also runs Working Women Malaysia (not THAT kind of Working Women!), Mamapumpkin - Creating A Life of Abundance, and Funky Moms on Facebook to offer REAL support to all women who want career and life success. She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially free has enabled her to travel the world anytime anywhere doing anything, and she spends most of her day to day with her children, reading and supporting other women.
For enquiries, please contact her at mamapumpkin at gmail dot com or WhatsApp her at +6012-2333840