I find that many guys in trying to catch a girl, have a habit of telling them what they have materially so that girls will fall for them since let’s face it, most girls are frigging materialistic these days. I have guy friends who buy sports cars because they think they can catch a girl better this way, I have friends who drive their dad’s Aston Martins to show off to girls, I have guy friends who tell girls about their rich dads so girls will get interested. But what is the point in all this?
I also know of a millionaire who refused to bring his girlfriend home to his house for an entire year and drove an old beat car during the year whilst he dated her and dressed low key. Well guess what? When he proposed, she said yes and then he brought her home to his house and she didn’t believe him. Then she fainted. Now they are living happily ever after. Then I know of another girl who dated a guy who drove a cheap car and lived in a cheap house, only to find out after marriage that his family are very wealthy indeed!
So my point is, guys, never let a girl know what you have or where you come from because don’t you want a girl to love you for you and not for what you have? I’d say 98% of the girls out there these days look for some kind of security. I could be wrong.
Who is Mamapumpkin?
Mamapumpkin spent 7 years in London committing crimes to gain her Bartlett BSc in Architecture. She spent 7 years as a Stay At Home Mom raising her children as documented in this Mamapumpkin blog since over 10 years ago and thereafter returned to the Corporate World stronger than ever. Her last job as Country Director of a British Railway Signalling organisation saw her getting ill with an aortal and mitral heart valve regurgitation and early stage cancer. Through her journey from working to not working to working again, she sets out to prove to all women that they can do anything and everything that they set out to do; as long as they have that fire of desire burning within and the drive to work hard. Even better with oodles of love, passion and integrity.
Despite being ill, she has grown a network marketing business from very little knowledge and experience in the otherwise infamously known MLM (Multi-Level Marketing) industry, racing from an income of ZERO to RM 100,000 monthly in merely 2 years. She is a firm believer of the MLM business model but realises the pitfalls too and understands how and why the majority of people would shy away (or zoom far away) from any MLM business.
She is now pondering the title of her new book, From Zero to 100,000 RM monthly in 2 years and has a sequel in the pipeline with the aim of helping real professionals succeed in the World of MLM. Always the giver, Mamapumpkin has supported orphans for over 30 years and has now extended her care to the sick, single mothers, and even struggling families. She believes that with the MLM business model, we can all have a life of our own desires to enable real contribution into the world.
A beautiful life without limits.
Mamapumpkin currently manages the Homeschooling Hub Malaysia on Facebook. She also runs Working Women Malaysia (not THAT kind of Working Women!), Mamapumpkin - Creating A Life of Abundance, and Funky Moms on Facebook to offer REAL support to all women who want career and life success. She is a living testimony that women really can have a lot. Being financially free has enabled her to travel the world anytime anywhere doing anything, and she spends most of her day to day with her children, reading and supporting other women.
For enquiries, please contact her at mamapumpkin at gmail dot com or WhatsApp her at +6012-2333840