….Talk is cheap….take it with a pinch of salt!
I find that many guys in trying to catch a girl, have a habit of telling them what they have materially so that girls will fall for them since let’s face it, most girls are frigging materialistic these days. I have guy friends who buy sports cars because they think they can catch a girl better this way, I have friends who drive their dad’s Aston Martins to show off to girls, I have guy friends who tell girls about their rich dads so girls will get interested. But what is the point in all this?
I also know of a millionaire who refused to bring his girlfriend home to his house for an entire year and drove an old beat car during the year whilst he dated her and dressed low key. Well guess what? When he proposed, she said yes and then he brought her home to his house and she didn’t believe him. Then she fainted. Now they are living happily ever after. Then I know of another girl who dated a guy who drove a cheap car and lived in a cheap house, only to find out after marriage that his family are very wealthy indeed!
So my point is, guys, never let a girl know what you have or where you come from because don’t you want a girl to love you for you and not for what you have? I’d say 98% of the girls out there these days look for some kind of security. I could be wrong.
Once upon a time, I designed buildings and interiors of corporate offices and on the rare occasion, homes. Now, I clean poop and am student of a patience management course. From the drawing board as a London Architect to the realities of Motherhood, I have certainly learned many lessons in humility. And then others.....
To succeed in the corporate world, first succeed with your kid as the happy boss. Seriously.
This blog is about me, Mamapumpkin. A crazy, demented Mom who cares full time, alone, without any help, for an even crazier preschooler AND a baby with a boob addiction problem. *sniff* Someone, please get me a chair.......
I write anything that comes out of my head, mostly without thinking first, which almost always gets me into trouble (according to my husband, also known as the love of my life.......on a good day).
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Paik Ling (127 comments.)
January 27th, 2010 at 2:14 am
My husband took me to eat chicken rice at Jalan Gasing on our first official date. He drove his mum’s car (1978- made Datsun), dressed in shorts and slippers most of the time. And guess what? He is NOT wealthy. drats. hahahahahahah