Mamapumpkin???

Once upon a time, she designed buildings and interiors of corporate offices and on the rare occasion, homes. Now, she cleans poop and is student of a patience management course. From the drawing board as a London Architect to the realities of Motherhood, she has certainly learned many lessons in humility. And then others.....



To succeed in the corporate world, first succeed with your kid as the happy boss. Seriously.



This blog is about Mamapumpkin: A crazy, demented Mom who cares full time, alone, without any help, for an even crazier preschooler AND a baby with a boob addiction problem.



She writes anything that comes out of her head, mostly without thinking first, which almost always gets her into trouble (according to her husband, whom she considers the love of her life.......on a good day).



Her 2 pet monkeys drive her towards challenge after challenge, 24/7. Day after Day.....and by the way, her parents are Muslim, her in-laws Buddhist, she's Catholic and her Hubs, an Atheist. She's thinking her kids should be Hindu, just to complete the rainbow religion cycle.



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Sleep training a 5 year old

Follow Tee’s SLEEP JOURNEY since the day she was born. You MUST open the links to see the pictures of her sleeping adventures!

So.

Tonight. 1st December 2009. I decided that enough was enough.

I was going to do whatever it took to make Tee sleep on her own. WITHOUT me. I made a deal with her that she had to give herself a chance to fall asleep without a crutch (ME) for 10 days. Just 10 days. For goodness sake, she’s FIVE YEARS OLD!!!

She goes to Big School next year!!! How awful that she still needs her Mommy to hug her to bed! C’mon, gimme a break!!!

We started at 730pm. I sent her to our bedroom whilst I stayed outside with T2. The loudest bawling began.  Frequent trips out with every excuse under the sun. More bawling. Swollen eyes. Several hundred threats. Lots of corridor walking. More bawling. Choking. Vomiting. Indian tamil drama. Lots of tears. More excuses – hunger, washroom, thirst. Golf ball eyes. Big, huge, uncontrollable sobs.

She finally passed out 2 hours later. Only because we were out all day playing. Her personal record of loud bawling is 3 hours so we had it good this evening.

I’m sure there will be less crying tomorrow when she realises that…………

I. will. not. budge.

Good luck, Tee. Mommy loves you more than anything in the world.

And just in case you think I’m the meanest Mom on this planet, I was real nice, reassuring her every 10 minutes when she’d walk out that I loved her and she was strong and I knew she could do this blablababla. And no, she did not vomit. She just pretended to.

Note to self: Must photograph Tee’s bulging eyes tomorrow. *evil laugh*

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6 comments to Sleep training a 5 year old

  • mott (138 comments.)

    Yes…POWAR TO THE MOTHER!!!!!!!

    Short term pains for long term gains!

    YOU CAN DO IT MAMAPUMPKIN!!!!!!!!!!

  • Vonvon (107 comments.)

    I must learn from you….just last nite, I was the one sulking when she refused to sleep and Hubby suggested we take her for a drive…and after 20 mins she fell asleep on the car ride home… sigh…

  • coffeesncookies (218 comments.)

    coincidentally, we also started on 1 Dec. Light off, she’s on the bed, early (at 10pm – usual was ard 11-11.30pm) and hubs surf on attached study room. The usual lah.. eyes itchy, bum itchy, tummy ache, want water, want shee shee, want to pangsai, stomach ache.. bla bla bla.. fell asleep at 11pm. I have 1 month to get her to sleep early before school starts in Jan. Major stress..

  • rachel (143 comments.)

    I m sure Tee will succeed….

  • Grace Koay (8 comments.)

    LOL!!!! I understand your pain MamaPumpkin!! Although my willpower is shocking… I’m a sucker for golf ball eyes. Do take photos!! hha…

  • mommy to chumsy (116 comments.)

    oh man…i gotta start training ashley too. thanks for posting this. i need the advice…hehehehe

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