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Life’s greatest challenge….
By bigpumpkin | July 28, 2007
Is Motherhood.
I’m kidding.
Out of the whole population today, what percentage of it do you think have mastered the art of non-judgement?
In our daily lives everyday, how often do we, as humans, judge others?
Passing judgement is an easy thing to do. Dependent on our expertise in math and physics, 1+2=3, dx/dy2x=fma+7yx(3z-7y), one judges another through the influences in our formative years and exposure to the world. What is black is black and what is white is white. Unfortunately, the ways of the Universe is not that clear-cut. Because every single person has his own formulae of life experiences that materialises into approximately 6.6 billion different shades of gray.
Take for example, all the things in other people that you do not like, physically or mentally. Have a think about what causes you to pre-judge them. Do you even have a right in the first place? Yet, we do it everyday - passing judgement. With strangers or those whom we are closest to. If someone were to look or behave in a way that is out of your bubble, a judgement is automatically formed, internally or vocally. And this applies even to ourselves, whom we are possibly the most critical judge.
See that FAT girl over there? She really has no discipline, does she? What person in their right mind would allow themselves to grow into a humongous blob that won’t fit into a bus? Or the largest airplane seat? FAT lady is automatically striked off 99% of employers because being that large, she just can’t be good for business. Yet, we don’t know that she has a hormonal disorder like Cushing’s Syndrome, that even if she were to consume the leanest diet to survive coupled with high activity, she would still be that large. And then if the social stigma isn’t bad enough, she has to go through the complications of a myriad subsequent illnesses, spend half her life at the Doctors and overdose on meds.
Or what about the person who can’t stop lying? What a crook! Don’t trust him. You can’t stand liars. Never could. The Laws of the Universe say that our outer reality is a mirror reflection of our inner reality. This means that if the liar could cause such a negative emotion within yourself, somewhere in there, there is an issue in your soul that causes your annoyance. Dig it up. Why does that man lying affect you so much that you have to judge him, be condescending, spread gossip. If he was a liar, so what? Don’t deal with him. But don’t judge him. For you haven’t the faintest clue to the background of why he does what he does.
Remember too that what is rage and anger to one could be interpreted or perceived as a slight annoyance to another. Isn’t it better then to just state the facts and not judge?
We all have the power to create our own realities but more often than not, we are weak. It is much easier to pass judgement on others than to look deeply within ourselves. We all want love. If we’re not asking for it, we’d be giving it. And when we don’t get enough, we throw our negative thoughts out to make ourselves feel better. When really, we only fool ourselves. For it is those that we judge, who are the true teachers of our own fears.
So be brave and conquer them. For we are the only ones who can change our realities in life.
Why complicate the world?
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July 31st, 2007 at 4:16 am
amen mommy! i do it all the time (judge others) then i have to remind myself that if i’m judging, i’m being judged too. not a good feeling. ‘-)
Uhuh…me too.